Sicily: Villa Kela

11–15 May 2026 (4 nights), near Noto,

This exclusive retreat invites gay and bisexual men into a space of exploration, pleasure and healing through tantric meditations, Somatic Breathwork, and Tantra Massage including lingam massage. The container is intimate and respectful, designed for men who wish to deepen their connection with their bodies, sexuality and heart in a guided and conscious way.

The retreat is not a nude retreat: nudity is present only during the massage sessions, where it supports the depth of the bodywork. At all other times participants are asked to wear shorts or swimsuits, creating a relaxed, safe and comfortable group atmosphere.

What we will explore:

Tantric meditations combine breath, awareness and simple movement or sound to help participants feel more fully present in their bodies and emotions. These practices cultivate sensitivity, expand the capacity for pleasure, and support a deeper sense of connection with oneself and with others.

Somatic Breathwork uses conscious, often rhythmic breathing patterns to access and release stored tension, emotions and stress in the body. Through guided breathing journeys, participants may experience emotional release, clarity, and a powerful sense of groundedness and inner peace.

 

Tantra Massage is a full-body, sensual and meditative form of touch that honors the whole being, including erotic energy, without focusing on performance or goal-oriented sexuality. The emphasis is on slowing down, feeling, and allowing energy to move through the body, inviting relaxation, pleasure, and a deep sense of presence.

 

Lingam massage is a specific tantric practice focused on the penis (lingam), approached as a sacred and powerful energy center rather than just a sexual organ. Through attentive, respectful and varied touch, this massage can help release blockages, expand pleasure, build trust, and invite men into a more conscious, loving relationship with their sexuality.

 

Atmosphere, clothing and boundaries;

This retreat is exclusively for gay and bisexual men and is grounded in consent, respect and clear boundaries. Nudity is only part of the massage practices, never required outside the dedicated workshop spaces. For all other activities—meditations, breathwork circles, meals, cycling and shared time—participants are asked to wear shorts or swimsuits.

The focus is on creating a safe, playful and supportive environment where everyone can choose their level of participation, communicate limits clearly, and feel seen and respected.

Accommodation:
Comfortable villa in southeastern Sicily with single rooms (king/queen/standard beds) or twin shares, plus outdoor areas, practice spaces for relaxation between sessions.

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Workshops & Activities:

• Tantric Meditations: Breath, awareness, movement/sound for presence, pleasure capacity, connections.

• Somatic Breathwork: Rhythmic patterns releasing stress/emotions for clarity, peace.

• Tantra Massage: Full-body meditative touch honoring sensuality without performance pressure.

• Lingam Massage: Attentive touch as energy center for blockages release, trust, conscious sexuality.

• Cycling Tour: Sicilian countryside exploration.

• Marianelli Naturist Beach: Afternoon immersion.

• Free Time: Rest, integrate, group connection.
   

Vegetarian meals:
Supportive of inner work—notify dietary needs.

Travel: Catania Airport (~1hr taxi).
 

Pricing and Accommodation

• King, queen, or standard size: €1450 or €1200 per person if shared.

• Twin room to share: €1200 per person.

These comprehensive rates cover luxury accommodation at Villa Kela, all practices, meals, tours, and beach access.

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The retreat takes place at Villa Kela near Noto, in the beautiful landscape of southeastern Sicily. Explore the venue through these links to see the rooms and facilities:

• https://www.thethinkingtraveller.com/italy/sicily/villas/saia

• https://www.thethinkingtraveller.com/italy/sicily/villas/tula

   

Note: These links are for viewing only—do not book through them. All reservations are handled directly via this retreat.

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